Finally! A Way to Get Your Kids to WANT To Listen Without Yelling, Threats, or That Soul-Crushing Mom Guilt
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The Daily Battlefield Looks Like...
I was at Target with my two young daughters—one in the cart, the other walking beside me—when simultaneous meltdowns erupted at checkout. Not just whining or fussing, but full-blown, tears-streaming, flailing-limbs chaos. The mom ahead of me turned around and said, with that biting tone only a stranger can deliver, “Thanks for making it so my daughter is never going to want to have kids.”
It was like someone threw a grenade of shame into my already shaky self-worth. I went home convinced that if I were a “good mom,” my kids wouldn’t be melting down in public. Years later, I see what I couldn’t then: nothing had gone wrong. Meltdowns are developmentally normal. They’re not evidence that something’s broken—they’re proof that your child’s nervous system is overwhelmed and still learning.
This is why I created Connect Method Parenting™. So no parent has to feel that crushing shame I felt that day.
The Daily Reality
Your kids ignore your requests, every bedtime is a battle, and your home feels like chaotic ground zero instead of the peaceful haven you imagined.
What It Feels Like
You lie awake at night replaying your parental failures, convinced that your children will need therapy because of you. Each ignored request and eye roll confirms your deepest fear: maybe you’re just not cut out for this parenting thing after all.
What Should Be True
Parents shouldn’t have to choose between being respected and being loved by their children. Connection and cooperation should go hand in hand.
The Real Pain Goes Deeper Than Chaos
Parents don't just want well-behaved kids—they want to stop feeling like failures every time their child ignores them. They want to stop wondering if they're ruining their kids forever. They want to look in the mirror and see a parent they're proud to be.
The research is clear: 40% of children lack strong emotional bonds with their parents. These bonds don't just predict future success—they determine whether your adult children will want relationships with you or merely tolerate obligatory holiday visits. Twenty years from now, will your grown children call because they can't wait to talk to you... or will they send a quick text out of obligation? The connection you build NOW is writing that future story.
Your connect method parenting transformation
Here's the game-changer: Everything you've been taught about parenting is backward.
BEFORE
- Constantly yelling to be heard
- Bedtime battles that last 2+ hours
- Kids who tune you out completely
- Guilt and shame after losing your temper
- Fearful your relationship is permanently damaged
AFTER
- Calm, confident communication
- Peaceful bedtime routines you actually enjoy
- Kids who want to listen to you
- Responding with intention instead of reaction
- Deep connection that will last a lifetime
“I was yelling daily… now maybe once a week. I’m more in control and I can help my girls.”
— Rebecca, mom finding her calm
Parents Like You Are Saying...
“Before the Pivot, I felt like a victim to the parenting patterns I’d seen my whole life. Now, I feel confident paving a new way.”
— Cara, breaking generational cycles
“My daughter is more open to talking. I feel more connected now. I’ve learned to get curious, not corrective.”
— Cecelia, mom building deeper bonds
“Connect Method Parenting and Andee’s work changed my life and relationship with my kids. I will forever be grateful for the knowledge and tools I gained over the last two months.”
— Jessica, mom of 4 boys who finally feels in control
I've been where you are. I've yelled until my throat hurt. I've cried in bathroom stalls. And I've discovered there's another way.
Why parents trust Andee:
- Registered Nurse
- Creator of Connect Method Parenting
- Developmental Psychology Trained
- Multiple Coaching Certifications
- Mom of 6 (ages 17-25)
- 10,000+ Families Helped
- Bestselling Author
- Featured on Studio 5 & 30+ Podcasts
- Host of a Top 5% Global Parenting Podcast
Those "Perfect" Moms With Kids Who WANT to Listen?
Their Secret Isn't What You Think
If you guessed they have magical reward systems, superhuman consistency, or unicorn children, you’d be wrong.
If you assumed they have better support, superior parenting books, or the patience of a saint (that you’ll never have), wrong again.
The truth? They’ve discovered that connection—not correction—is the key to getting kids to WANT to listen.
It was the Baby Powder Blizzard that changed everything.
Picture this: I walk into my playroom to find three children covered in white powder. An entire Costco-sized bottle emptied everywhere. I lost it—yelling and mentally calculating punishments.
Then I looked down at their faces. Suddenly, I could see through the “powder blizzard” to what really mattered: my curious children simply exploring their world in the way children do.
That moment transformed me. I realized I was focusing on what wasn’t working instead of seeing the greatness in my children. This insight launched me into researching better approaches—diving into developmental psychology and attachment theory to create Connect Method Parenting™—an evidence-based approach that has now helped over 10,000 families transform chaos into connection.
"I think my eulogy is going to read: Died a yeller."
I still remember how the cookie dough ice cream tasted that day—cold and sweet, but also like shame and failure.
It was one of those days. Two kids under three. House a wreck. Kitchen a war zone. And the night before, I’d lost it. I had yelled—really yelled. Not the calm, conscious parenting I’d hoped to be doing.
When my friend dropped by unexpectedly, I was sitting at the kitchen counter with a spoon in one hand and tears threatening in the corners of my eyes.
Instead of offering a pep talk, she simply said, “Tell me more.” And that moment—being seen without judgment—changed me more than any parenting book ever had.
For the first time, I realized that maybe I didn’t have to be perfect to be a good mom. That moment was the beginning of learning to be a safe place for my kids by first learning to be a safe place for myself.
Everything You'll Get:
- The 8-Week PIVOT Program — $497 value
- CMP Mastery Monthly Content — $197/month value
- The PIVOT Companion Book — $37 value
- Response Plan Assistant — $147 value
- Weekly Office Hours — $199 value
- Office Hours Library (160+ episodes) — $299 value
- Private Podcast Feeds — $49 value
- CMP Discussion Boards — $49 value
Total Value: $1,474
Your Investment:
Just $79/month
(about the cost of a daily coffee habit)
Our "Connected Family" Guarantee
If you show up, do the work, and don’t get results, you’ll get a full refund. (Though between us? In all our time doing this, we’ve never had anyone ask for their money back!)
Introducing:
A coaching program that gives you EVERYTHING you need to implement Connect Method Parenting™ and transform your family life forever.
Because here's the thing: Your kids aren't broken. And neither are you.
Crystal clear transformations you'll experience:
- Bedtime transforms from a 2-hour battle into a 20-minute connection ritual you'll actually look forward to
- Morning routines that run on autopilot without you having to repeat yourself 37 times
- Your teenager actually CHOOSING to put down their phone to talk with you about their day
- Siblings who solve their own conflicts while you sip your still-hot coffee in peace
- The confidence to handle public meltdowns without shame or embarrassment
Walking into a messy kitchen and knowing EXACTLY what to do
(without losing your cool for the 17th time today)
Your teenager actually coming to YOU for advice about friends, relationships, and life
(instead of grunt-texting their friends or slamming doors)
Bedtime becoming your favorite part of the day
(whether you’re tucking in a toddler or saying goodnight to a teen who actually tells you about their day)
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The special PIVOT Book bonus is only available for a limited time. Plus, start now and get immediate access to the first week of transformational content!
Don't waste another day stuck in the same frustrating patterns.
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Your 3-Step Path to Parenting Transformation
The Ridiculously Simple 3-Step System
Join League
Experience Connect Method Parenting
Apply Daily
One simple technique at a time
Enjoy Results
Kids who WANT to listen
Step 1
Complete The PIVOT (Our Essential 8-Week Foundation)
Okay, listen up, because this is THE non-negotiable first step! EVERYONE who works with Andee starts with The PIVOT. It’s like the parenting equivalent of learning to walk before you run a marathon (except with more coffee and less crying… from you, at least).
What happens: You’ll start noticing kids who actually look you in the eye when you speak (instead of the zombie-glaze), bedtimes that don’t require United Nations peacekeeping forces, and siblings who occasionally – wait for it – solve their OWN problems!
Step 2
Graduate to CMP Mastery (Where the Real Magic Happens)
Let’s be real for a sec – changing decades of parenting programming doesn’t happen overnight (or even in 8 weeks). Each month in CMP Mastery, we deep-dive into ONE power skill that makes everything click.
Truth bomb: Most parents stick around in LEAGUE for a year or more. Not because they’re slow learners (you’re basically a parenting genius waiting to happen!), but because lasting change is like learning a new language – total immersion gets you fluent faster!
Step 3
Experience the Transformation (The Results That Make It All Worth It)
The numbers that’ll make your jaw drop: 251% increase in listening, 202% improved relationships, and 246% better handling of those “is Mercury in retrograde or is it just my child today?” moments.
But the real transformation? It’s the morning you realize you haven’t yelled in weeks. It’s when your child comes to you with a problem instead of hiding it.
Who You Become Through The League:
The Confidently Calm Parent
"I can figure this out."
“Even challenging parenting problems have solutions, and I’ve got the toolkit for ALL of them.”
The parent who doesn’t fall apart when life falls apart, because you have tools that actually work when parenting gets weird
The Trusted Confidant
"I'm a safe place to share."
“Your stories matter to me—from playground drama to heartbreak and everything between.”
The parent your children actually WANT to talk to about life’s big moments—from first playground friendships to first heartbreaks
Real Parents, Real Transformations
“Connect Method Parenting and Andee’s work changed my life and relationship with my kids. I will forever be grateful for the knowledge and tools I gained over the last two months. Thank you!!!!!”
— Jessica, mom who finally feels in control
“This program was amazing! It truly changed the way I viewed parenting. My kids were not being difficult to make life hard for me… they were being difficult when things were difficult for THEM. I could parent with much more compassion and stay in control. Totally game changer.”
— Erin, adoptive mom who found her way
Connect Method Parenting and Andee’s work changed my life and relationship with my kids. I will forever be grateful for the knowledge and tools I gained over the last two months. Thank you!!!!!
- Jessica Searle
You’re an answered prayer Andee. I’ve been praying for God’s wisdom what I needed to say or do to help my child obey the first time. God has answered my prayer through the pivot. Through you Andee. So thank you very, very much.🙏❤️
- Christine Winkler
I am very thankful for the work Andee and her team have done, CMP has brought a complete change in my mind and my life and I foresee it serving me very well for a long, long time
- Touba Warsi
I am grateful for you Andee. I appreciate your gift of being able to teach and help with connection. YOU are always in my head. I hear your voice and you are always saying “it’s okay, you’ve got this”
- Rebecca Bench
I enjoyed the program a lot! I felt like the app was easy to use (there were a few bugs – but not a big deal). I felt supported by Andee. I do feel like looking at my thoughts every day helped me to separate myself from them and think before I reacted.
- Shantel Christensen
Andee and the ladies in the Pivot were wonderful. I hope Andee starts a CMP book club and I wish I had had more time to engage in the discussion section in the app.
- Sonia Frantz
The stakes couldn’t be higher. Your relationship with your children isn’t just about easier days now—it’s about who they become and whether they’ll want to call you when they’re adults.
Imagine bedtimes that end with hugs instead of tears. Imagine teenagers who actually talk to you about their lives. Imagine feeling proud of how you handled a meltdown instead of ashamed.
Imagine looking back years from now, knowing the day you joined was the day everything changed for your family. That day could be today!
How League Fits Into Your Life
Everything you need, delivered in bite-sized, doable steps.
Weekly Lessons & Live Coaching Calls
Get expert-led training and real-time support to help you shift your parenting in just one hour a week.
Replays in the App & Private Podcast Feed
Can’t make it live? No problem. Watch or listen on your schedule—anytime, anywhere.
Interactive Tools to Help You Apply What You Learn
Spend 15 min a day using the in-app exercises to help you put the concepts into practice with your own family.
Frequently Asked Questions
Quick Breakdown 👇
- PIVOT = Amazing 8-week parenting course
- LEAGUE = PIVOT + CMP Mastery + ongoing support + bonus goodies
(Keep reading for the juicy details, or just trust me that LEAGUE is like getting the deluxe package at the spa, while PIVOT is like getting that one amazing massage you’ll talk about for years!)
Your Choose-Your-Own-Adventure Options:
✨ The PIVOT: 8 weeks of “Let’s do this thing!” Perfect for the “I want results faster than my Amazon Prime delivery” crowd.
✨ LEAGUE: Everything. The whole enchilada. All-you-can-learn buffet. (Warning: May cause excessive parenting confidence and random bursts of “Did you see how calmly I handled that?!”)
- You get The PIVOT (your parenting bootcamp extraordinaire)
- PLUS access to CMP Mastery (think of it as your black belt in ninja parenting)
- You can repeat The PIVOT whenever you want (because sometimes you need a second helping of that secret sauce!)
- PLUS – Ongoing access, support, community so that CMP becomes your new default!!!
The Numbers Don’t Lie (And Neither Do the Happy Dance Videos We Get from Parents):
- 251% increase in listening (That’s not a typo, folks!)
- 202% improved relationships (Bye-bye bedtime battles, hello peaceful evenings!)
- 246% better handling of those off-track behavior moments (aka “Is my child secretly a tiny tornado?”)
Bottom Line: Whether you go PIVOT or LEAGUE, you’re about to join the “I Actually Enjoyed Parenting Today” club. (Yes, it exists, and yes, we should totally get jackets made! 🧥)
League is your VIP pass to turning those “why won’t they just LISTEN?” moments into actual connection. Picture your most organized friend (you know, the one with the color-coded calendar and matching sock drawer) somehow downloaded all their connective parenting wisdom into one ridiculously accessible container. That’s League! What does it include? Everything you need to create amazing relationships, better listening, and more fun.
The Core Experience:
- The 8 Week Parenting Pivot, you start going through our signature program where parents have reported a 251% increase in listening, 202% improved relationships, and 246% increase in being able to challenging parenting situations. You get the ENTIRE Connect Method Parenting™ framework taught to you in 8 Week. That will literally change your life. (Dramatic? Maybe. True? Absolutely!)
- CMP Mastery, after The 8 Week Parenting Pivot, you’ll start diving DEEP each month Connect Method Parenting themes, topics and skills. Making CMP go from “something you’re trying” into “wait, when did this become so natural?!” Think of it as your parenting graduate school (but way more fun, and nobody makes you write a thesis while sleep-deprived.)Each month we’ll tackle one power skill that makes everything click. No more scattered strategies – just focused mastery that builds on everything you’ve learned.
- CMP App, yhis isn’t just some boring video library, friend! The CMP App is your ENTIRE parenting command center! Everything you need is inside the CMP App.
- CMP Tools, you’ll get access to three life-changing CMP tools. That are interactive and right into the CMP App.
- LIVE Calls: Picture this – you’re getting ACTUAL SOLUTIONS for why your 8-year-old suddenly communicates exclusively through eye-rolls and why you’re getting so triggered by it. Can’t make it live? No worries! We record EVERYTHING. Because we understand you’re busy!
- Discussion Group: Our CMP Boards (life a FB Group but WAY better) are buzzing with parents just like you. Think of this space as your judgment-free zone where you can ask anything and get help 24/7
The Numbers Don’t Lie (And Neither Do the Happy Dance Videos We Get from Parents) When parents start learning CMP from us this is what they’ve reported:
- 251% increase in listening (That’s not a typo, folks!)
- 202% improved relationships (Bye-bye bedtime battles, hello peaceful evenings!)
- 246% better handling of those off-track behavior moments (aka “Is my child secretly a tiny tornado?”)
Of course there’s hope. This kind of parenting works with even the most challenging children. How? Because this kind of parenting starts with YOU. You focus on your nervous system, processing your emotions and working on your mindset. The work you do on yourself creates a chain reaction. Your neural pathways change. They begin sending out new messages via your mirror neurons, and your kids feel that. The more regulated, compassionate and if needed firm you are when things go off-track the more regulated and compassionate your kids will become.
Once you’re IN, you’ll get an email and text message with instructions on how to get started with Orientation and what to do next so you’re ready for when your round of the PIVOT starts.
You’re looking at about 2 hours a week, friend! That’s roughly the same amount of time you spend watching one movie or driving carpool. You can totally sprinkle these 2 hours throughout your week!
Want to dive deeper and spend more time exploring? Go for it! But 2 hours will give you enough of time to watch the lessons and actually implement what you’re learning – because let’s be real, we’re not here to collect more “I’ll get to this someday” we’re ready to change our parenting TODAY!! 😉
Here’s the deal: I’m so ridiculously confident that League will rock your world, I’m backing it up with the most amazing guarantee ever. If you show up, do the work and don’t get results you’ll get a full refund, no guilt trips. (Though between us? In all our time doing this, we’ve never had to go there. Just saying! 🎯)
YES! CMP works for children and parents of all ages because we get to the root of what makes a human a human and heal and connect from the inside out. I’ll give you age appropriate things to say or do, but all of the things I teach you to do come from the same 3 CMP Strategies and core philosophies of Developmental Psychology, Attachment Theory, and Trauma Informed and Nervous System friendly frameworks. Which isn’t constrained to a specific age or stage.
- LIVE Coaching Calls
- The CMP App
- Discussion Boards
- The Private Podcast Feed
- Office Hours/LIVE Calls
- Bonus Trainings, Courses, and Replays
Having access to LIVE coaching is CRITICAL to successfully implementing Connect Method Parenting.
It makes all the difference. You’ll don’t get this in just a course.
This level of coaching isn’t available in programs at this price point. I wanted to change that. I wanted anyone who was ready to dive into implementing Connect Method Parenting to be able to jump in and get to work.
I wanted to give you everything you needed to create real transformation (I refused to cut corners).
I knew for real transformation to happen League HAD to have…
- Training and learning modules that were easy to consume
- LIVE coaching to navigate real-life situations
- Support and accountability to stay committed when things got tough
League offers ALL of these things. It’s is a no-brainer. Come as you are.
- Choose to create something different using connection, not correction.
- Commit to staying with it, even when things are tough.
- Create something different for you and your family.’ll
93% of parents say they’ve resorted to yelling at their kids by the time they are four.
That’s because they’re using consequences and rewards to try to parent their kids. It’s not working!
Parenting has become synonymous with discipline. Yet parenting is NOT the sum total of us telling our kids what they can and can’t do. Parenting is about making it easy and fun for your children to thrive and fulfill their potential.
Time to change the conversation about parenting.
After reading dozens of books on parenting, trudging to weekend workshops and watching online webinars, I realized that most parenting advice is focused on the theory instead of practice and kids instead of the adults. Connect Method Parenting pays attention to the triggers and blocks that parents themselves have that prevent us from showing up the way we want to for our kids. They know better but they can’t do better–and that’s incredibly frustrating for a parent.
Unlike other parenting methods Connect Method Parenting uses Developmental Psychology as its foundation, is trauma informed and uses a whole body implementation approach to empowering parents to change the way they parent and lose their dependency on consequences and rewards.
If you find yourself losing your temper and yelling often, you’re going to love Connect Method Parenting!
You’ll learn what’s behind your frustration and uncontrolled temper.
I’m a reformed yeller myself…so I get your struggle. After yelling for years I finally figured out how to stop yelling and letting my temper get away from me and I can’t wait to share what I discovered with you.
I’ve got the goods to help you get control of your temper and move from where you are to where you want to be with your parenting.
The frameworks I teach you in this course will be life-changing for you even if you aren’t getting the support you would like from others around you.
While I always love seeing both parents jumping in to learn and apply these principles, part of my focus for this course is on helping individuals recognize how much power and capability they have on their own.
Absolutely! It doesn’t matter if you come live or listen to the replays. Its equally powerful, and there are plenty of ways to get your questions answered and support without coming to the calls/trainings live.
What really matters is not if you come live or listen to the replays. What really matters is do you take action on what you learn and implement it.
Knowledge is great. But action is required to make a permanent shift with your parenting. That’s why League is equal parts learning and implementation. Listen to the calls/trainings whenever you can, take action on what you’ve learned and get support if you have questions, need support, want to celebrate a win or just need a little nudge to keep the momentum going.
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