Stop feeling like a parenting failure by Friday
(Without bribes, threats, or hiding in the bathroom to cry)
Join the Pivot and in just 8 weeks, discover why your kid ACTUALLY doesn't listen (hint: it's not what you think) and transform daily battles into peaceful cooperation — without losing your ever-loving mind or resorting to screen time bribes that make you feel guilty anyway!
Struggling with power struggles and disobedience?
Feeling overwhelmed & disconnected from your child?
Turn it around in just 8 weeks.
“This seriously has changed my heart and my brain! Can’t imagine where I’d be without it! So worth it!”
— AnnMarie, Mother of 10 who sleeps better at night
Well, Hello Better Way! 👋
The 8-Week Parenting Pivot isn't just another "try this trick" program that works for exactly 4 minutes.
It’s a complete “wait, you mean I DON’T have to threaten to take away the iPad 37 times a day?!” transformation that gets to the root of WHY your kids aren’t listening and HOW to create the kind of relationship where they actually WANT to cooperate.
Kids listening went up
Improved relationships
Better handling of challenges
“Working with Andee has been the most freeing work I have ever done. She has created a program loaded with simple steps and tools that are usable and doable. It’s fun and it works!”
— Rebecca, business owner & mom of 2 teens
“CMP is God’s answer to my prayer to be the mom He created me to be.”
— Chris, Mom who found her parenting peace
We Solve Your Most Frustrating Parenting Challenges
How to get your child to WANT to listen to you
End the cycle of repeating yourself 10 times and then yelling. Our Connection Method gives you the exact words and approach that creates willing cooperation.
How to handle siblings who fight constantly
Without playing referee all day or threatening to “Take everything away.” Learn proven techniques to create lasting peace between siblings and teach conflict resolution skills.
What to do when your child has an explosive meltdown
Learn exactly how to stay calm during their storm and guide them through big emotions without making things worse or damaging your relationship.
How to get through bedtime without losing your mind
Without bribes, threats, or ending the night in tears (yours or theirs). Create bedtime routines that actually work and reclaim your evening adult time.
If you've ever locked yourself in a closet for 5 minutes of peace, whispered "I can't do this anymore" under your breath, or dreaded another day of the same battles—you're in the right place. This program was made for real parents in the trenches.
Hear From Parents Who've Made The Pivot
The Parenting Transformation You've Been Waiting For
BEFORE The Pivot
- I was yelling at my kids daily. Nothing was working." - Rebecca
- Hopeless. I didn't think I could ever stop yelling." - Christine
- I felt like a victim to the parenting patterns I'd seen my whole life." - Cara
- Constant anxiety, overwhelm, and me being triggered almost all the time." - Monica
- A whirlwind of chaos. My kids constantly fought and I reacted instantly—adding fuel to the fire." - Baylee
AFTER The Pivot
- I might yell once a week. I'm more in control of me, so I can help my girls." - Rebecca
- I know what to do now. More connection and peace." - Christine
- I feel confident and hopeful, paving a new way forward." - Cara
- I'm able to stay with myself in discomfort and process triggers — even old ones." - Monica
- I focus on the emotional experiences shaping behavior instead of just trying to correct it." - Baylee
Every power struggle builds a wall between you.
Every night you go to bed thinking "I've failed again today" is a day lost.
And here's the brutal truth no one tells you:
Kids don’t remember the iPad time you gave them or the threats that finally got them to brush their teeth. They remember how it FELT to be your child.
(Gulp. I know. That hit me hard too.)
The good news? You can change how it feels to be your child starting TODAY.
“CMP is God’s answer to my prayer to be the mom He created me to be.”
- Christine, Parenting Pivot Graduate
You’ve tried the counting to three thing (they just wait for “2.5”!), the timeout chair (that mysteriously keeps moving across the room), and that “listening face” that your kids somehow see right through.
"I feel like I'm constantly nagging and I can feel the strain in our relationship."
Here’s the deal: Most parenting advice acts like your kids are the problem, but PLOT TWIST – what if there was a completely different approach that actually, you know… WORKED?
I know what it's like to dread bedtime, to feel like you spend your whole day barking orders, to wonder when parenting became all about battles instead of joy. It doesn't have to be this way.]
“I used to expect my kids to listen. Now, I accept them as they are. This wasn’t just a course—it was the roadmap I needed.”
- Angela, Mom of 3
You want to raise children who are confident, emotionally resilient, and deeply connected to you. But trying to control behavior instead of understanding it will never create that kind of relationship. Connect Method Parenting helps you make a powerful shift—from telling your child what to do and not do, to becoming the steady, trusted leader they want to follow. When you stop controlling the story and start leading with connection, your whole family dynamic changes. Fewer power struggles. More cooperation. And children who grow into who they truly are—not who they were told to be.
How It Works
(So Simple a Sleep-Deprived Parent Can Do It!)
Your Path To Peaceful Parenting In Just 8 Weeks
Our simple 3-step path takes you from overwhelmed to confident without complex theories or impossible-to-follow advice:
Regulate Yourself
End the yelling and frustration by understanding your behavior & feeling your emotions first. Gain powerful tools to stay calm even when your kids push every button.
Build Connection
Create the deep bond that makes your child want to cooperate. You’ll learn exactly how to connect in ways that transform your relationship forever.
Respond Effectively
Handle any challenging behavior with confidence. You’ll know what to say and do in any situation, from tantrums to defiance to sibling fights.
Everything is delivered through bite-sized weekly lessons with 3 powerful support systems to ensure your success: easy-to-watch video lessons, a private podcast feed for learning while multitasking, and live office hours for personalized help.
The Powerful Tools You'll Master:
Daily PEACE Tool
Stop yelling and reset your nervous system in just 90 seconds, even in the heat of the moment
Custom Connection Plan
Build a relationship so strong your child naturally wants to listen and cooperate
The Seen and Heard Framework
Transform defiance into cooperation without threats, bribes, or punishments
Response Plan Assistant
Get instant, personalized guidance for any parenting challenge, right when you need it
Meet Your Guide: Andee Martineau
Hey there! 👋 I'm Andee - mom of six, reformed yeller, bestselling author, and the creator of Connect Method Parenting.
After years of my own parenting struggles (think epic meltdowns—and that was just ME!), I finally cracked the code on getting kids to WANT to listen.
As a registered nurse with extensive training in developmental psychology (fancy words for “I really get how little brains work!”), I’ve helped over 10,000 parents replace those old-school tactics that NEVER work with the only tool you’ll ever need: genuine connection.
Because let’s be real—parenting shouldn’t feel like herding caffeinated squirrels. And with the right approach, it won’t! 😉
“Andee is incredible. Her vibrant and positive countenance just draws you in and creates an atmosphere perfect for learning and growth.”
— Hannah, Mom who found her confidence
- The average parent spends 2-3 hours DAILY fixing misbehavior and conflicts.
- That's up to 20+ hours of your precious week spent in battle mode instead of making memories!
- By month's end, you've lost nearly EIGHTY HOURS you could've spent actually enjoying your kids.
(And FYI, they grow up WAY too fast for that nonsense!)
What could you do with an extra 80 hours a month of actually ENJOYING your family instead of managing them?
Being a good parent doesn't mean having perfectly behaved kids. It means being the safe place they run to, not from, when life gets hard. This program shows you exactly how to be that safe place.
What Pivot Parents Are Actually Experiencing
“I was yelling at my kids DAILY. Nothing was working. Now I might yell once a week. I’m more in control of me, so I can help my girls.”
— Rebecca, Mom who can finally breathe again
“I knew connection was the key, but up to that point nothing had worked to get me there. I’m so glad I did.”
— Angela, Mom who found her way
“My kids were not being difficult to make life hard for me… they were being difficult when things were difficult for them.”
— Erin, Mom who finally gets it
“The positivity in this course was so rewarding. Awareness of my own thoughts changed everything.”
— Hannah, Mom who discovered her own power
“I never want to go back to scolding and yelling. This opened my eyes to what’s happening under the surface.”
— Tara, Mom who's found a better way
“Before the Pivot, I felt like a victim to the parenting patterns I’d seen my whole life. Now, I feel confident paving a new way forward.”
— Cara, Mom breaking generational cycles
Here it is: Most parenting experts are setting you up to fail.
Not intentionally! But they’re giving you tips and tricks designed for mythical, perfectly rational children who respond to star charts and timeout chairs with “Yes, mother, I shall comply immediately.”
Meanwhile, your very real human child just put spaghetti in the DVD player despite KNOWING better.
The secret? Your child’s behavior isn’t about what they KNOW.
It’s about what they FEEL.
And that’s why every other approach you’ve tried has eventually fallen flat.
But when you focus on connection FIRST? Everything shifts.
(And I mean EVERYTHING.)
You're Literally This Close to Changing Everything
The daily battles don't have to be your family's story. The frustration doesn't have to be your default emotion. The disconnect doesn't have to be your relationship status with your kids.
You can be the parent who:
- Knows exactly what to do when things go sideways
- Enjoys being with your kids (yes, even during homework time!
- Creates the kind of connection that lasts through the teen years and beyond
- Breaks generational patterns and creates something new
- Actually has FUN with this whole parenting gig
Join The Parenting Pivot Today!
The special PIVOT Book bonus is only available for a limited time. Plus, start now and get immediate access to the first week of transformational content!
Don't waste another day stuck in the same frustrating patterns.
100% Money-Back Guarantee: Love it or get a full refund within 30 days
How the 8-Week Pivot Fits Into Your Life
Everything you need, delivered in bite-sized, doable steps.
Weekly Lessons & Live Coaching Calls
Get expert-led training and real-time support to help you shift your parenting in just one hour a week.
Replays in the App & Private Podcast Feed
Can’t make it live? No problem. Watch or listen on your schedule—anytime, anywhere.
Interactive Tools to Help You Apply What You Learn
Spend 15 min a day using the in-app exercises to help you put the concepts into practice with your own family.
Frequently Asked Questions
Quick Breakdown 👇
- PIVOT = Amazing 8-week parenting course
- LEAGUE = PIVOT + CMP Mastery + ongoing support + bonus goodies
(Keep reading for the juicy details, or just trust me that LEAGUE is like getting the deluxe package at the spa, while PIVOT is like getting that one amazing massage you’ll talk about for years!)
Your Choose-Your-Own-Adventure Options:
✨ The PIVOT: 8 weeks of “Let’s do this thing!” Perfect for the “I want results faster than my Amazon Prime delivery” crowd.
✨ LEAGUE: Everything. The whole enchilada. All-you-can-learn buffet. (Warning: May cause excessive parenting confidence and random bursts of “Did you see how calmly I handled that?!”)
- You get The PIVOT (your parenting bootcamp extraordinaire)
- PLUS access to CMP Mastery (think of it as your black belt in ninja parenting)
- You can repeat The PIVOT whenever you want (because sometimes you need a second helping of that secret sauce!)
- PLUS – Ongoing access, support, community so that CMP becomes your new default!!!
The Numbers Don’t Lie (And Neither Do the Happy Dance Videos We Get from Parents):
- 251% increase in listening (That’s not a typo, folks!)
- 202% improved relationships (Bye-bye bedtime battles, hello peaceful evenings!)
- 246% better handling of those off-track behavior moments (aka “Is my child secretly a tiny tornado?”)
Bottom Line: Whether you go PIVOT or LEAGUE, you’re about to join the “I Actually Enjoyed Parenting Today” club. (Yes, it exists, and yes, we should totally get jackets made! 🧥)
League is your VIP pass to turning those “why won’t they just LISTEN?” moments into actual connection. Picture your most organized friend (you know, the one with the color-coded calendar and matching sock drawer) somehow downloaded all their connective parenting wisdom into one ridiculously accessible container. That’s League! What does it include? Everything you need to create amazing relationships, better listening, and more fun.
The Core Experience:
- The 8 Week Parenting Pivot, you start going through our signature program where parents have reported a 251% increase in listening, 202% improved relationships, and 246% increase in being able to challenging parenting situations. You get the ENTIRE Connect Method Parenting™ framework taught to you in 8 Week. That will literally change your life. (Dramatic? Maybe. True? Absolutely!)
- CMP Mastery, after The 8 Week Parenting Pivot, you’ll start diving DEEP each month Connect Method Parenting themes, topics and skills. Making CMP go from “something you’re trying” into “wait, when did this become so natural?!” Think of it as your parenting graduate school (but way more fun, and nobody makes you write a thesis while sleep-deprived.)Each month we’ll tackle one power skill that makes everything click. No more scattered strategies – just focused mastery that builds on everything you’ve learned.
- CMP App, yhis isn’t just some boring video library, friend! The CMP App is your ENTIRE parenting command center! Everything you need is inside the CMP App.
- CMP Tools, you’ll get access to three life-changing CMP tools. That are interactive and right into the CMP App.
- LIVE Calls: Picture this – you’re getting ACTUAL SOLUTIONS for why your 8-year-old suddenly communicates exclusively through eye-rolls and why you’re getting so triggered by it. Can’t make it live? No worries! We record EVERYTHING. Because we understand you’re busy!
- Discussion Group: Our CMP Boards (life a FB Group but WAY better) are buzzing with parents just like you. Think of this space as your judgment-free zone where you can ask anything and get help 24/7
The Numbers Don’t Lie (And Neither Do the Happy Dance Videos We Get from Parents) When parents start learning CMP from us this is what they’ve reported:
- 251% increase in listening (That’s not a typo, folks!)
- 202% improved relationships (Bye-bye bedtime battles, hello peaceful evenings!)
- 246% better handling of those off-track behavior moments (aka “Is my child secretly a tiny tornado?”)
Of course there’s hope. This kind of parenting works with even the most challenging children. How? Because this kind of parenting starts with YOU. You focus on your nervous system, processing your emotions and working on your mindset. The work you do on yourself creates a chain reaction. Your neural pathways change. They begin sending out new messages via your mirror neurons, and your kids feel that. The more regulated, compassionate and if needed firm you are when things go off-track the more regulated and compassionate your kids will become.
Once you’re IN, you’ll get an email and text message with instructions on how to get started with Orientation and what to do next so you’re ready for when your round of the PIVOT starts.
You’re looking at about 2 hours a week, friend! That’s roughly the same amount of time you spend watching one movie or driving carpool. You can totally sprinkle these 2 hours throughout your week!
Want to dive deeper and spend more time exploring? Go for it! But 2 hours will give you enough of time to watch the lessons and actually implement what you’re learning – because let’s be real, we’re not here to collect more “I’ll get to this someday” we’re ready to change our parenting TODAY!! 😉
Here’s the deal: I’m so ridiculously confident that League will rock your world, I’m backing it up with the most amazing guarantee ever. If you show up, do the work and don’t get results you’ll get a full refund, no guilt trips. (Though between us? In all our time doing this, we’ve never had to go there. Just saying! 🎯)
YES! CMP works for children and parents of all ages because we get to the root of what makes a human a human and heal and connect from the inside out. I’ll give you age appropriate things to say or do, but all of the things I teach you to do come from the same 3 CMP Strategies and core philosophies of Developmental Psychology, Attachment Theory, and Trauma Informed and Nervous System friendly frameworks. Which isn’t constrained to a specific age or stage.
- LIVE Coaching Calls
- The CMP App
- Discussion Boards
- The Private Podcast Feed
- Office Hours/LIVE Calls
- Bonus Trainings, Courses, and Replays
Having access to LIVE coaching is CRITICAL to successfully implementing Connect Method Parenting.
It makes all the difference. You’ll don’t get this in just a course.
This level of coaching isn’t available in programs at this price point. I wanted to change that. I wanted anyone who was ready to dive into implementing Connect Method Parenting to be able to jump in and get to work.
I wanted to give you everything you needed to create real transformation (I refused to cut corners).
I knew for real transformation to happen League HAD to have…
- Training and learning modules that were easy to consume
- LIVE coaching to navigate real-life situations
- Support and accountability to stay committed when things got tough
League offers ALL of these things. It’s is a no-brainer. Come as you are.
- Choose to create something different using connection, not correction.
- Commit to staying with it, even when things are tough.
- Create something different for you and your family.’ll
93% of parents say they’ve resorted to yelling at their kids by the time they are four.
That’s because they’re using consequences and rewards to try to parent their kids. It’s not working!
Parenting has become synonymous with discipline. Yet parenting is NOT the sum total of us telling our kids what they can and can’t do. Parenting is about making it easy and fun for your children to thrive and fulfill their potential.
Time to change the conversation about parenting.
After reading dozens of books on parenting, trudging to weekend workshops and watching online webinars, I realized that most parenting advice is focused on the theory instead of practice and kids instead of the adults. Connect Method Parenting pays attention to the triggers and blocks that parents themselves have that prevent us from showing up the way we want to for our kids. They know better but they can’t do better–and that’s incredibly frustrating for a parent.
Unlike other parenting methods Connect Method Parenting uses Developmental Psychology as its foundation, is trauma informed and uses a whole body implementation approach to empowering parents to change the way they parent and lose their dependency on consequences and rewards.
If you find yourself losing your temper and yelling often, you’re going to love Connect Method Parenting!
You’ll learn what’s behind your frustration and uncontrolled temper.
I’m a reformed yeller myself…so I get your struggle. After yelling for years I finally figured out how to stop yelling and letting my temper get away from me and I can’t wait to share what I discovered with you.
I’ve got the goods to help you get control of your temper and move from where you are to where you want to be with your parenting.
The frameworks I teach you in this course will be life-changing for you even if you aren’t getting the support you would like from others around you.
While I always love seeing both parents jumping in to learn and apply these principles, part of my focus for this course is on helping individuals recognize how much power and capability they have on their own.
Absolutely! It doesn’t matter if you come live or listen to the replays. Its equally powerful, and there are plenty of ways to get your questions answered and support without coming to the calls/trainings live.
What really matters is not if you come live or listen to the replays. What really matters is do you take action on what you learn and implement it.
Knowledge is great. But action is required to make a permanent shift with your parenting. That’s why League is equal parts learning and implementation. Listen to the calls/trainings whenever you can, take action on what you’ve learned and get support if you have questions, need support, want to celebrate a win or just need a little nudge to keep the momentum going.
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