Punishments don’t work

I thought using punishments and rewards would change my kids for the better.

But the method is the message.

We can’t teach kindness while yelling.

We can’t teach patience while impatiently telling them to stop their meltdown.

When we forget…

“that growth, development, and maturation are natural processes, we lose perspective. We become afraid our children will get stuck and never grow up.” – Gordon Neufeld

Leaning into connection and creating a dreamy relationship with our kids is the key to helping our children learn all the important lessons we are wanting to teach them.

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Andee Martineau

Andee’s a mom of 6, reformed yeller, and the creator of Connect Method Parenting. She’s on a mission to help moms feel in control, bring the fun back into parenting, and ditch the yelling, corrections, and endless feelings of failure!

Can you imagine your kids happily listening to you, helping around the house, confiding in you, and getting along with their siblings? She’s got you covered with simple, scientifically-sound steps to do just that (that actually work. For real!)

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