We’re doing a study on Connect Method Parenting. Those accepted into the study will go through the 8-Week Pivot for FREE (there is a $200 refundable deposit to ensure participation, but you get it back after the 8-weeks)!
Why free? Because we want more data to back up what I know to be true: CMP works! And I’m willing to put myself on the line to gather that.
The 8-Week Parenting Pivot works because it’s implementation-centered: it involves lots of hard work and TONS of support. Not for the faint of heart, but for those committed to change.
How do you get in? Apply by clicking the link below.
Using a 10-point scale, Amelia was asked to report on the following areas of her parenting before and after the 8-week pivot. Included are the changes in her before and after scores:
Kids listening without yelling, punishments, or bribes: 4 point increase
Overall confidence as a parent: 5 point increase
Connection with kids: 3 point increase
Awareness of important parenting thoughts: 6 point increase
– Amelia
I know you’re caring, hardworking, and want to be a calm connected parent for your kids.
All you want is for your household to feel peaceful and your kids to grow up to be happy, successful humans.
But, nope… you feel completely out of control. Everything’s chaotic because the kids don’t listen and they talk back. The toddler’s melting down. The house is a mess. They’re always fighting. One of them is getting bad grades.
You feel like you’re constantly yelling, which makes you feel awful.
You yearn for a close relationship with them where they WANT to listen, and feel like they can confide in you.
But your relationship with your kids is just a disaster and it makes you so sad, especially when it feels like you’re doing everything you’re “supposed” to be doing.
Is this really SO much to ask?
And what’s so frustrating is that you’re doing everything you’re ‘supposed’ to be doing as a parent but it just isn’t working. You’re ready to try something different but you just don’t know what.
But you know there HAS to be solution.
It’s totally normal to worry about this, but it’s actually not the case at all. Kids respond WAY better to having limits set, and respecting them, when it’s been paired with a steady stream of parental connection. Going hard with consequences makes them more likely to misbehave.
You may have read things making it sound like behavior is impossible to change after a certain age. If your kids are older, I don’t blame you for wanting to give up! But I promise it’s not too late. Kids of all ages (and adults too) respond better to connection. I know because my older kids were teens before I figured this stuff out and it still worked to transform our relationship.
Nope. I make this simple, and do-able with practical steps that any parent can put into action. I have helped the most volatile parents regain confidence and learn the tools that allow them to transform their parenting. It will require work, but we can do this… together!
Using a 10-point scale, Jessica was asked to report on the following areas of her parenting before and after the 8-week pivot. Included are the changes in her before and after scores:
Kids listening without yelling, punishments, or bribes: 5 point increase
Connection with kids: 6 point increase
– Jessica
It’s not that you JUST want them to listen and comply with your requests (although you do.)
You want to feel like you’re doing a good job at the most important, meaningful role – raising your kids to be happy, kind, successful humans.
To ensure you’ll have a close, positive relationship with your kids for the rest of their lives.
Connect Method Parenting is the simple framework I’ve developed to make this totally realistic and do-able. And the League is my Connect Method Parenting coaching program where you can learn Connect Method Parenting and get supported all along the way as you implement it!
After reading dozens of books on parenting, trudging to weekend parenting workshops and watching video parenting trainings for hours on end I was told that consequences and rewards were the answer to my parenting problems.
Believe me, I tried to make the consequence reward strategy work!
But having 6 kiddos in 8 years kicked me in the butt. There wasn’t enough of me to control all of them with consequences and rewards.
I felt lost, alone, and like I was failing at parenting.
Things didn’t turn around for years. Not until I realized the problem was the parenting framework itself. Not me.
It didn’t work because my parenting approach was built on the assumption that discipline was essential to parenting.
It isn’t true!
At the time this was scary. If I didn’t have consequences what did I have?! If I let those things go wouldn’t I be an irresponsible parent and have children who were out of control?
What if it was possible to parent without punishments? I was determined to find out. What did I have to lose? Consequences and rewards weren’t really working.
It took time to figure out a connective parenting. Eventually I cracked the code and ended up creating what I now call Connect Method Parenting.
My oldest is now in his 20’s and my baby is a teenager. With over two decades of parenting experience I now get to help parents learn what took me years to figure out — the secrets to getting their kids to WANT to listen without the yelling, ultimatums, or bribes.
Over the years CMP has gathered momentum and it shows no signs of slowing down! I’ve taught my methodology to over 10,000 parents!
The League of Extraordinarily Connected Parents is a Connect Method Parenting coaching program.
Inside League you get to change your parenting forever by implementing Connect Method Parenting.
Once you join League you’ll go to bed without feeling that nagging parenting regret. The kids will get along better. You’ll feel less frustrated. The kids’ cooperation will get better. Your parent child relationships will deepen. You’ll have lots of fun parenting!
How?! By learning Connect Method Parenting and become a pro at implementing. This is exactly what we do inside League!
In the CMP Study you get…
All for $200 refundable deposit.
The League is a Connect Method Parenting coaching program for parents who want to be at peace with their parenting and are ready to break out of the cycle of correction, frustration and exhaustion.
If you get accepted into the CMP Study you’ll go through the 8-Week Parenting Pivot (which is the first 8 weeks of League)
I’m going to show you how to take the “triggers” that usually lead to frustration and disconnection with your kids and use a brand new set of tools to transform these situations into powerful moments of connection.
This is a lot more than just general positive parenting concepts… it’s a practical approach with specific things you can implement starting right away!
I was struggling with my own responses to my emotional 5 yr old. I had tried lots of books, podcasts, articles. But I could never get them to “work” in my life despite them making tons of sense. I needed to be better for my kids! This is an investment in our family’s future.
I saw results so quickly. You work through so many real life situations that it makes so much sense. I can see the applications over and over. I can see and feel the difference in connection with my girls. Not that we don’t have issues, but we at very connected and we trust each other. I can feel that this is the foundation we need. Thank you, Andee!!
League is a Connect Method Parenting coaching program giving you exactly what you need to move from frustration, disconnection, and correction to confidence, connection, and peace.
You’ll get instant access to everything you need to start yelling less, the kids to start listening more right away.
The CMP app dishes up the training, replays, live calls — so you can take the principles of Connect Method Parenting and implement them in your real-life situations today!
Connect Method Parenting works! It’s backed by studies, and research, but even more importantly it’s back by real life stories of moms who tried it and they started yelling less, the kids started listening better, and the joy and fun of being a mom went through the roof.
Every League member gets access to the revolutionary 8 Week Parenting Pivot. It takes you through simple and doable steps making implementing Connect Method Parenting™ inevitable. It’s like getting a masters degree in parenting!
The CMP Mastery comes after the Parenting Pivot and is designed intentionally to create major life-altering discoveries for YOU so that yelling, ultimatums, bribes, time-outs, grounding, etc… are no longer your go to parenting tools.
You’ll also get access to other life-changing resources to help you with your parenting goals.
You’ll get the courses, call schedule, replays in the CMP app that you’ll download in the app store.
No more trying to remember the website or login to get quick access to everything you need to go from corrective to connective parenting.
To make it even easier you can listen to the CMP Masters Course and Call Replays in a private podcast feed. Learn while at soccer practice or listen while you drive.
LIVE coaching calls: where you get real and work on your specific issues. If you can’t make every live call, it’s OK. I record them and post replays in the app and podcast feed.
CMP Hotline: 24/7 support. If you’re feeling stuck you can text us and we’ll get back to you with answers within 1 business day
Your GPS as you navigate from corrective to connective parenting. The only thing you need to do is to open the app. It takes all the guess work out of the implementation process so you can up-leveling your parenting-game (and your life), big time.
Practice being present. Calm your nervous system. Allow yourself to become the connected mom you want to become.
I have truly enjoyed working with Andee. She has a wealth of knowledge, training and experience and has developed an inspired program, one that truly empowers mothers to take ownership of their lives in new and exciting ways.
If you are unhappy with the current results you’re getting, seeking personal growth, just want to up-level an area of your life, or would like to improve your relationships (it works with teens, toddlers, tweens and even adult children), I highly recommend coaching with Andee to help get you the results you really want.
– Jennifer, single mom of a 7 year old girl
I love how present I am with my children and I love feeling good about my parenting at the end of the day! It’s also helped me personally to look at my life with curiosity and compassion, which has helped me make improvements in my own life.
– Sarah, mom to 5 boys & a brand new baby girl
– Janna, mom to 7 kids ages 20-7
I can’t believe I didn’t have access to this energy and information 19 years ago when I started my momma journey, but better late than never!
– AnnMarie, mom of 10 kids ages 21-1
You don’t want to miss out out on our July CMP Study if you’re ready to increase the listening and connection with your children!! On July 15th the CMP Study will start and we will not let anyone into our programs until September or October.
What if my kids grow up and leave my house and I haven’t created the connection I want that will last a lifetime? Have you ever thought that?
Well, I’m here to tell you that you absolutely can figure this out, and you can make very fast progress, if you’re committed. And I’m here to help. In fact, that’s the whole reason I created this course. It’s a simple, quick way for you to have an experience with Connective Parenting that will give you hope and courage.
If you’re like most parents, you’ve probably got 9 plates spinning at this very moment. The temptation is probably just to keep plugging away and see if anything changes.
But the thing is that you’ll always be busy and every moment is precious. Before you know it, years will go by and nothing will have changed. I don’t want that for you. I want to invite you to make today be the first day of a new life for you as a parent and for your family.
“I didn’t know that there was another way of parenting! I just knew was that what I had been doing wasn’t working. Working with Andee and learning her Connect Method Parenting has really changed my life and transformed everything about my relationships with my kids and myself, and even with my husband.”
– Malerie, mom of two adorable elementary aged kids
“I was at the end of my rope with a couple of my kids. Every day was just a series of me having to get louder, meaner, more intense with consequences. I’m just really grateful for everything that Andee has taught me. It’s made just a huge difference. I don’t have to yell anymore! I know exactly what to do in the situation. Overall I’m much more satisfied in my job as a mom”
– Sara, mom to 5 kiddos ages 20-12
“I was able to let go of a lot of this self judgment that I was holding on to about how I was a terrible mom and that I was never going to be enough. Helped me realize that connection is way more important than perfection. I love everything about Connect Method Parenting. This has changed my family culture.”
– Kaity, mom to lots of young children born super close together 🙂
The CMP Study is going to change your parenting forever.
When you join, you’ll experience our 8-Week Parenting Pivot for FREE. This is the first part of League. Why FREE? Because we have a goal to change the landscape of parenting. AND in order to do that we need statistical data to prove that CMP works.
So you get to come through our program and you give us permission to track your progress and create a case study of your experience over the 8-weeks.
We do need you to complete the 8-Week Parenting Pivot to collect the data needed for the study. So, we ask you to pay a 100% refundable $100 deposit to show your commitment. We need to know you’re invested in doing the work. The resources we allocate to support you throughout the program are substantial. So the $200 deposit is your commitment that you will show up and do the work. In order for us to collect the results we need participants to complete the 8-Week Parenting Pivot.
The results from our previous CMP Study are off the charts! We’ve seen up to 400% increases in some areas and 200-300% in most.
Ready to revolutionize your parenting? Dive into the next round now!
League is a unique, makeover-style parenting program that will get your kids WANTING to listen to you, create better relationships with them, and help you stop using punishments for good. It’s video modules, live support, a course, and a community!
League starts with an intense 8-Week Parenting Pivot that gets your CMP Framework established.
Then we transition into a monthly styled pace that’s carefully curated to get those new neural pathways we started creating in the 8-Week Parenting Pivot to go from baby neural pathways into mature neural pathways firmly established in your subconscious brain so they become your new default.
The main meat of it is in a slick App that walks you step by step from correcting and frustrated —> to connected and calm. Inside the App you’ll find a calendar of upcoming events, replays, trainings, interactive implementation exercises, and more.
The Private Podcast feed houses the replays and trainings you can access in the app in an easy to use audio version. You listen to it all right inside your podcast player of choice. For busy moms this bonus way of digesting he CMP goodness you’ll find inside of League is a must.
The 8-Week Parenting Pivot and CMP Mastery are phases one and two of League, respectfully. The first 8-Weeks of League is like an intense parenting boot camp. It’s fast-paced. In 8 weeks you learn the entire CMP Framework at a foundational level. Then to create lasting permanent change they transition into a slower deeper implementation cadence to create CMP Mastery.
Of course there’s hope. This kind of parenting works with even the most challenging children. How? Because this kind of parenting starts with YOU. You focus on your nervous system, processing your emotions and working on your mindset. The work you do on yourself creates a chain reaction. Your neural pathways change. They begin sending out new messages via your mirror neurons, and your kids feel that. The more regulated, compassionate and if needed firm you are when things go off-track the more regulated and compassionate your kids will become.
Once your application to join League has been approved, you’ll get an email and text message with instructions for how to download the League app (works on iPhone and Android phones), along with the password you’ll use to log into the CMP App which will give you instructions on what to do next to get started. You’ll also receive notices about our next live coaching call and a link to subscribe to the League Private Podcast Feed.
I hear ya! I’d plan on investing 1-2 hours a week learning and implementing CMP.
If you do all the work and aren’t able to make progress with your parenting we’ll give you your money back (but we’ve never had to do this).
YES! CMP works for children and parents of all ages because we get to the root of what makes a human a human and heal and connect from the inside out. I’ll give you age appropriate things to say or do, but all of the things I teach you to do come from the same 3 CMP Strategies and core philosophies of Developmental Psychology, Attachment Theory, and Trauma Informed and Nervous System friendly frameworks. Which isn’t constrained to a specific age or stage.
Having access to LIVE coaching is CRITICAL to successfully implementing Connect Method Parenting.
It makes all the difference. You’ll don’t get this in just a course.
This level of coaching isn’t available in programs at this price point. I wanted to change that. I wanted anyone who was ready to dive into implementing Connect Method Parenting to be able to jump in and get to work.
I wanted to give you everything you needed to create real transformation (I refused to cut corners).
I knew for real transformation to happen League HAD to have…
League offers ALL of these things. It’s is a no-brainer. Come as you are.
93% of parents say they’ve resorted to yelling at their kids by the time they are four.
That’s because they’re using consequences and rewards to try to parent their kids. It’s not working!
Parenting has become synonymous with discipline. Yet parenting is NOT the sum total of us telling our kids what they can and can’t do. Parenting is about making it easy and fun for your children to thrive and fulfill their potential.
Time to change the conversation about parenting.
After reading dozens of books on parenting, trudging to weekend workshops and watching online webinars, I realized that most parenting advice is focused on the theory instead of practice and kids instead of the adults. Connect Method Parenting pays attention to the triggers and blocks that parents themselves have that prevent us from showing up the way we want to for our kids. They know better but they can’t do better–and that’s incredibly frustrating for a parent.
Unlike other parenting methods Connect Method Parenting uses Developmental Psychology as its foundation, is trauma informed and uses a whole body implementation approach to empowering parents to change the way they parent and lose their dependency on consequences and rewards.
If you find yourself losing your temper and yelling often, you’re going to love Connect Method Parenting!
You’ll learn what’s behind your frustration and uncontrolled temper.
I’m a reformed yeller myself…so I get your struggle. After yelling for years I finally figured out how to stop yelling and letting my temper get away from me and I can’t wait to share what I discovered with you.
I’ve got the goods to help you get control of your temper and move from where you are to where you want to be with your parenting.
The frameworks I teach you in this course will be life-changing for you even if you aren’t getting the support you would like from others around you.
While I always love seeing both parents jumping in to learn and apply these principles, part of my focus for this course is on helping individuals recognize how much power and capability they have on their own.
Absolutely! It doesn’t matter if you come live or listen to the replays. Its equally powerful, and there are plenty of ways to get your questions answered and support without coming to the calls/trainings live.
What really matters is not if you come live or listen to the replays. What really matters is do you take action on what you learn and implement it.
Knowledge is great. But action is required to make a permanent shift with your parenting. That’s why League is equal parts learning and implementation. Listen to the calls/trainings whenever you can, take action on what you’ve learned and get support if you have questions, need support, want to celebrate a win or just need a little nudge to keep the momentum going.
– AM, mom of 10 kids
– Marie, mom to a toddler and a 12 year old
– Melissa, single mom of a 6 year old daughter
– Laura, mom of 3 kids one on the spectrum