Healing my hurts

We’ve all got stories full of 😩 hurts, pain, and heartbreak from our past.

It’s part of the human experience.

If you don’t heal with your own hurts you bring them into your parenting.

You think you’re yelling because the kids won’t listen, or help clean up dinner, or pick up their toys, BUT that’s not why.

You’re yelling because of hurt, pain, or a story from your past.

The old stories have lead to subconscious beliefs like…

👉 I’m not good enough
👉 Something’s wrong with me.
👉 I’m bossy.
👉 I’m loud.
👉 I’m lazy.
👉 I’m not smart or talented enough.
👉 I can’t control myself.
👉 I’m going to fail.
👉 If I don’t behave well you don’t love or accept me.

None of them are true.

They’re just stories.

Once you realize this you can let them go.

And your parenting shifts.


Because now you have room to create new stories like…

…I’m an AMAZING HUMAN who is whole, complete, and perfect! (My kids are AMAZING HUMANS who are whole, complete, and perfect!)

…I’m 100% loveable! (My kids are 100% loveable!)

…I’m NOT broken. (My kids aren’t broken.)

…I don’t need to be fixed. (My kids don’t need to be fixed.)

…I AM Enough just as I am. (My kids are ENOUGH just the way they are.)


I see, then accept.
I feel, then release.
I choose, then commit.
I believe, then become.

This is what we do in Connect Method Parenting. We CREATE NEW SCRIPTS and HEAL OLD HURTS.

xoxo, Andee ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Andee Martineau

Andee’s a mom of 6, reformed yeller, and the creator of Connect Method Parenting. She’s on a mission to help moms feel in control, bring the fun back into parenting, and ditch the yelling, corrections, and endless feelings of failure!

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