I'm here to crack open your parenting genius!
Inside you is the power to change your home.
- Create incredible relationships with your children.
- Confidently handle sticky parenting situations.
- Have more fun raising your kids.
Your kids want you to use Connect Method Parenting because it means...
- You're no longer losing your cool all the time (the kids can feel a huge difference!)
- You're feeling more confident and connected. (no more parenting regrets)
- Parenting success isn't eluding you anymore. (you're feeling the wins)
- You're present with the kids. (they love the attention)
Unlike most dry, complicated parenting advice, I make parenting fun again with simple, do-able, science-backed steps that actually work!
Connection
Relationships trump everything else. Rather than correction & rewards, it’s the human connection that creates kids who actually WANT to listen to you.
Simplicty
I give you straight-forward, practical steps and don’t overcomplicate things – I want you to get results as easily
and efficiently as possible.
Fun & Play
Parenting should be FUN! Playing is where the biggest bonds with our kids are formed (and is the biggest key to gaining trust & respect from them).
Science Based
The Connect Method of parenting is evidence-based and rooted in up-to-data science, so we’re not just crossing our fingers that it’ll work.
Optimism
I believe everyone is doing the best
they can, and we can redefine our
“failures” into learning experiences
that create a better future.
I'm Andee. I teach parenting without correction.
It's called Connect Method Parenting. Using it is like eating your favorite bowl of cereal... delish, simple, and totally doable. Want some?
Lemme start by saying, punishments, bribes, ultimatums, timeouts, grounding…they aren’t gonna do the trick of getting the kids to listen – if they did we wouldn’t be having this conversation
Thing is, I always wanted to be the “Mother Teresa” kind of mom.
But eight years into parenting I had become the “yelling, frustrated, out-of-control” kind of mom. It felt awful!
That’s when I stopped believing in traditional parenting (thinking consequences and rewards worked) and started looking for a better way to parent.
After thousands of hours of research and loads of parenting practice (ahem...mistakes...sorry kids), I created Connect Method Parenting.
For over a decade, this amazing method has helped me (and the parents I've taught it to) know how to...
- Handle challenging behavior without punishments, ultimatums, and bribes
- Create amazingly connected relationships with the kids
- Find more confidence and joy in parenting...finally
Will Connect Method Parenting really work & other FAQs?
Totally! Nothing about parenting was like I thought it would be. I read every parenting book and attended every parenting training I could. Things did NOT get better.
I WAS STUCK!! I was exploding every day. It took me years of struggling, failing, and searching for another way to parent that didn’t rely on punishments, rewards, bribes, lectures, or ultimatums before things got better.
It didn’t come easy. I messed up a LOT!!! Eventually, I created Connect Method Parenting.
If I can turn around my parenting anyone can.
Oooooh, great question!
Answer…working with me is AH-mazing.
The best and most challenging experience of your life.
“I think that success is having fun.” -Bruno Mars.
I totally agree Bruno – so of course it’s going to be work but it’s also going to be fun.
For years I didn’t have fun with my parenting.
But ya know what?
We’re smarter when we’re playing and having fun.
Play frees us up from the demands of life.
Play helps us create deep bonds with others (ahem…our kids).
Play sets us up to creatively solve situations better (like the kids not doing their chores).
Play feels amazing.
We’re for sure going to play and have fun while we’re upgrade your parenting tool box.
Haha…you’re a nosy one.
I’m a bit of a learning junkie. So here’s a short sampling.
- Graduated college with my RN (registered nurse). Loved working in the hospital.
- Yoga Instructor. My background with gymnastics has made this my go to exercise.
- LCS Certified Life Coach. Amazing awareness and implementation tools to create massive change.
- Certified Integrative Coach. Incredibly powerful trama informed healing training.
- PSHY-K Facilitator. Tools to help reprogram the subconscious.
- Avid consumer of all thing Dr. Neufeld (leading psychologist in developmental psychology/attachment theory)
Freebies like these: connectmethodparenting.com/free-stuff
My book: connectmethodparenting.com/book
The Podcast: connectmethodparenting.com/podcast
…And flagship offers like this one: connectmethodparenting.com/league
Quick Breakdown 👇
- PIVOT = Amazing 8-week parenting course
- LEAGUE = PIVOT + CMP Mastery + ongoing support + bonus goodies
(Keep reading for the juicy details, or just trust me that LEAGUE is like getting the deluxe package at the spa, while PIVOT is like getting that one amazing massage you’ll talk about for years!)
Your Choose-Your-Own-Adventure Options:
✨ The PIVOT: 8 weeks of “Let’s do this thing!” Perfect for the “I want results faster than my Amazon Prime delivery” crowd.
✨ LEAGUE: Everything. The whole enchilada. All-you-can-learn buffet. (Warning: May cause excessive parenting confidence and random bursts of “Did you see how calmly I handled that?!”)
- You get The PIVOT (your parenting bootcamp extraordinaire)
- PLUS access to CMP Mastery (think of it as your black belt in ninja parenting)
- You can repeat The PIVOT whenever you want (because sometimes you need a second helping of that secret sauce!)
- PLUS – Ongoing access, support, community so that CMP becomes your new default!!!
The Numbers Don’t Lie (And Neither Do the Happy Dance Videos We Get from Parents):
- 251% increase in listening (That’s not a typo, folks!)
- 202% improved relationships (Bye-bye bedtime battles, hello peaceful evenings!)
- 246% better handling of those off-track behavior moments (aka “Is my child secretly a tiny tornado?”)
Bottom Line: Whether you go PIVOT or LEAGUE, you’re about to join the “I Actually Enjoyed Parenting Today” club. (Yes, it exists, and yes, we should totally get jackets made! 🧥)
You won’t get any judgy vibes from me.
We’re all doing the best we can!! None of us get it right all the time, and that is 100% the way it’s supposed to be.
If you catch yourself comparing yourself to others think of it as an indicator light that your self-love tank is low.
You are amazing, 100% loveable, and worthy!!
True love is honoring yourself, your space, and everyone you’ve welcomed in.
A USEFUL question to spend time on.
How is it true that I am amazing?
Even if you feel like the best you can do today is B- parenting keep going.
Do your best.
Stay curious.
And keep improving as you move forward.
Your B- parenting today is going to give your kids A+ helpfulness.
OK OK I’ll play along.
I’m Andee. Mom of 6 six, 3 boys and 3 girls ages 22-14.
I grew up in Arizona. Oldest of seven children.
As a kid I loved our simple summer holidays to the mountains for two weeks with my 40 cousins and 4 aunts. We’d camp out for weeks in cabins built in the 50’s, no indoor bathroom in sight.
I was a competitive gymnast for years before using those mad tumbling skills to become a varsity cheerleader in high school (go Jackrabbits…yep that was our high school mascot)
My husband Scott was my first kiss at 17 (totally crazy right?!).
I was a Registered Nurse by 20.
I love to travel…especially Europe.
I’m obsessed with pastries (especially ones filled with cream cheese or Nutella).
I’m a minimalist who lives in a little cabin by a stream in the woods with my fam.
I’m a banna bread making pro (on Sundays I pretty much have to turn those brown babies into bread)
We have a sheepadoodle name Leia (like princess Leia on Star Wars) she’s enormous and has her begging skills for food perfected and we all LOVE HER!!!!
I think you were made to be a CMPer. Join us in the League of Extraordinarily Connected Parents.
"Andee is incredible. I've learned so much from her!"
“Andee is incredible. She’s an amazing coach who is passionate about this work and her clients. Her vibrant and positive countenance just draws you in and creates an atmosphere perfect for learning and for growth. I have learned so much from her!”
– Hannah
Want your kids to listen to you? Want to create more loving relationships? Want to increase cooperation and kindness? I help with that. Here's how:
The PIVOT and/or the League
Quick Breakdown 👇
LEAGUE = PIVOT + CMP Mastery + ongoing support + bonus goodies (Keep reading for the juicy details, or just trust me that LEAGUE is like getting the deluxe package at the spa, while PIVOT is like getting that one amazing massage you’ll talk about for years!)
Your Choose-Your-Own-Adventure Options:
The PIVOT: You can just enroll in the 8 week Parenting PIVOT. Perfect for the “I want results faster than my Amazon Prime delivery” crowd. I’m in and I’m out.
THE LEAGUE: Everything. The whole enchilada. All-you-can-learn buffet. (Warning: May cause excessive parenting confidence and random bursts of “Did you see how calmly I handled that?!”)
- You get The PIVOT (your parenting bootcamp extraordinaire)
- PLUS access to CMP Mastery (think of it as your black belt in ninja parenting)
- You can repeat The PIVOT whenever you want (because sometimes you need a second helping of that secret sauce!)
- PLUS – Ongoing access, support, community so that CMP becomes your new default!!!
The Numbers Don’t Lie (And Neither Do the Happy Dance Videos We Get from Parents):
- 251% increase in listening (That’s not a typo, folks!)
- 202% improved relationships (Bye-bye bedtime battles, hello peaceful evenings!)
- 246% better handling off track behavior – you know those “Is my child secretly a tiny tornado?” moments
Bottom Line: Whether you go PIVOT or LEAGUE, you’re about to join the “I Actually Enjoyed Parenting Today” club. (Yes, it exists, and yes, we should totally get jackets made! 🧥)
1-on-1 Connect Method Parenting Coaching (currently full)
Does this sound like you?
- Enrolled in League but want extra help.
- Prefer working 1:1 vs in a group.
- Are stuck and want private mentoring.
- Don't mind paying a premium for a 6 month deep dive on implementing CMP.
Ready to crack open your can of connective genius? Click below to apply for my 1:1 coaching program. (Note that if you are accepted there’s often a wait before I have an opening)
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